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Today, I turn 42 🥳

I’ve been wanting to be 42 since I read “The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy” in my teens. On the one hand, I’m so excited for what this...

What are YOU dreaming about?

I dreamt about an American passport. About moving freely in the world. About making sure my parents have a home. About making six figures...

Are you being the toxic one?

I remember realizing for the first time that I was being the toxic one in a relationship. I fell in love hard when I was in my early 20s,...

It’s OK

It’s OK for you to feel all sorts of ways right now. Desperate about the situation in Ukraine. Proud of your own accomplishments. Anxious...

How to tell if someone is into you

they reach out to you first - text, call, initiate conversations they ask you out on dates they don’t leave you wondering they don’t send...

The importance of family support

Getting divorced can feel very lonely. There’s a stigma about it. There are people who disagree with you. Sometimes these are the people...

Feeling loved as a child

I read once in a book by Victor Frankl how a holocaust survivor saved himself. As the Nazis were escorting the group of exhausted...

How do you know it's time to leave?

I was married for seven years when I came home one day and asked my ex husband for a divorce. And while he feigned surprise at first, it...

What to do when he stops texting

Some of my single girlfriends are absolutely gorgeous and amazing human beings - kind, smart, witty, caring - and yet their self-image is...

About self-abandoning and fear of failure

I’m supposed to be talking about my course. I’m in the midst of the launch. But I find it increasingly hard to do. Since I launched, I’ve...

Don’t Get It Twisted

Lately, I talk a lot about my divorce in social media. And I’m realizing - I barely share what was good about my marriage. And there were...

When I was getting divorced

When I was getting divorced, I was lucky enough to have a friend. He listened to me, gave me good advice, made fun of me when I got too...

So I met someone recently

And something I noticed is that when I like someone, I start self-abandoning almost immediately. It’s messed up, I know, and I’m actively...

Twenty Seconds of Insane Courage

A couple of years ago, I had a client. His son was looking to rent an apartment on the Upper West Side and him, the father, was going to...

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